Pondering Bad Behavior

Why is so much bad behavior being exposed?
It's being exposed more lately because we are a world that runs on video and audio. Seeing or hearing  is believing. 

But will all this exposure stop bad behavior?
Nope. The more exposure there is the worse things become.

Is there any way to stop it?
Nope. It's too late.
At least I think it might be too late.
If we really want to find away to reduce bad behavior we all have to look within ourselves and ask ourselves, Why do we behave so badly?
Do we feel insecure?
Do we feel entitled to be superior?
Do we just want someone to cower in our presents?
Do we need to find someone to stroke an ego we think needs to be stroked?

There is more then likely a million and one questions we could ask our selves about why we do things the things we do.
Unfortunately we really don't want to hear the truth about why we do things the do.
It would be admitting to things we don't want to admit too.
Reality is something we don't want to own up too.
We just want to play the blame game. It's always someone else's fault.
Blaming someone else is for some reason easier then controlling ourselves.

To me self respect and self control is something we should all try to find a way to obtain and maintain.
It would be hard work and unfortunately a life long battle.
Sometimes you have to remind yourself you are not a two year old.

Bad behavior is another example that we truly have no self respect.
One thing you have to ask yourself is:
If I throw a hissy fit to get my way will it be worth it in the long run?

Just a little something for you to ponder on.
A little pondering never hurt anyone.




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