Ponder Pages

You ever have one of those days where your not sure if someone is doing or treating you in a way that makes you unsure if they are doing it out of being dense or if they are just doing it out the meanness of their heart? That is how some of my week felt. Well, OK just one day. At least this week. But I did get over it. One of my rules is to that when something is bothering me is to let me whine or vent for the rest of the day because tomorrow I'll be a whole lot calmer. It works for me. I do put up with allot of unfairness from people I know do it out of the meanness of their heart. I roll with the punches so to speak. Because some of these people do things to see how riled up they can get you. They push you till you finally have a melt down. People are always wondering will it ever end? I'm sorry to say it will not. All we can do is keep on defending ourselves the best way we can. Hopefully without really hurting each other or ourselves.  Over the years I have figured out th...

I think I'll make this post about things that have been bugging me lately. One thing is all the media coverage about Lindsey Lohan. Enough already! She is just another ego driven person who can't see what she is really doing to herself. If I could give her advice I would say; Take this time you are spending in jail and take a real hard look at your life. Honestly think about the direction your life is taking. Is being so self absorbed really going to get you anywhere but more lost? After jail, I hope rehab will get you off all those unnecessary drugs. Believe me once you see life through clear eyes it will take your breath away. And if I could suggest one more thing I would say move away from the Hollywood scene for about three years. Another thing is how Sarah Palin and her family keep popping up. Her daughter and the father of her baby deciding to get married and making the announcement so public only tells me it's for a possible reality show.( Something I never pla...

It's been one of those weeks where I'm not sure what to write. So much has been happening I'm not sure what to ponder. One thing I could ponder about is how stupid seems to be the thing more and more people are leading their lives by. Like the group of people who wanted to start a war with the police. They call themselves a christian militia. Religion has nothing to do with killing people in the way they wanted to it. I guess I don't understand those kind of people. But what I would like to say to other groups like them is this: If you are planning to do something like this group, you have to know it will not work in the way you want it to. It never does. So think of a different way to change things for yourself. Killing is not the way to go. Harm none. Things take time to change. Respect goes along way both ways. Bullying was in the news again. Something tells me these people were never taught respect or self control. I know what it's like to be bullied. I had ...

I've been hearing allot about this book that Sarah Palin wrote, and I will say I will not be one of those reading it. I have not liked her since the first time she opened her mouth when she was selected to be McCain's running mate. She does allot of talking but never really says anything. She talks in circles. At least I don't understand any point she is trying to make. And if this country ever decides she would be a good president I now the whole world will most definitely fall apart. If you thought Bush was bad she would be even worse. She will shoot first and maybe later decide to talk about things. She only wants to hear her own voice everywhere she goes. If I could talk to her I would tell her intimidation is not the way to get respect from others. If you want to get respect from others you must respect them also. Being a bully may work for awhile but it will all come crashing down around you so fast and so hard you will not know what hit you.This works for everyone.Ev...